I am reminded of the funny fact that when jumping straight up on the north pole, one establishes the same action/direction as someone walking one step north at the equator and then stepping back real quickly. They are the same, and they are of course not the same.
It looks like you are trying to explain something that is intrinsic, Tim, by addressing something external.
The relationship of red, blue, yellow and gray are understood when mixing the first three and getting the fourth one for free. Was gray there already? Yes.
There are two realities occurring at the same time. Matter is atomic nuclei from one (specific) source and the electron from another (overall) source.
Try not to mix them as if they are one and the same thing.
Also, try to use the term dimension in a correct dimensional setting (don't mix spatial and temporal dimensions and add one made-up one).
You have a smart brain, Tim, and this one is out of the park. Still, I am not fetching it.