I hear you. Within the restricted system, there are many opportunities to get frustrated on top of not being represented.
Have you ever taken a political test what your true political position is in the larger 3D reality of politics?
https://www.politicalcompass.org/test
The fun part is that the usual Democrat-Republican truth disappears and that your true colors come out (which may in some cases be exactly the center position of Red or Dem, but most likely not).
I like to stand outside this system, looking in not too deeply (I don't like Alice in Wonderland experiences), so most of my comments are about the system of winner-take-all itself and what is simply not right about it from an overall standpoint.
Thanks again for your shout out. I appreciate it.