Thank you, Tessa, for your heartfelt reply.
I do not know of any nation with the same voting system as the US. Do they vote winner-take-all and have a House and Senate plus an empowered President plus 50 States? I think not.
For someone who has lived here for 11 years you should be ashamed to not deliver solutions when you are aware of them. I think it is more likely that you cannot come up with solutions and you just pile up more on what is already a pile.
Other than that, I'll end with the same last sentence:
Thank you for writing down your thoughts; I agree with you otherwise.